Still no word from or about Rochelle.  I'm really scared and I don't know what to do about it.  I'm still going to Al-Anon/Nar-Anon meetings with Janet.  She's actually really cool. Rochelle has good taste in women. Still volunteering at the treatment program too. Today a guy told me when he was 16 his mother was having sex with him. He said she'd walk around the house with nothing on except high-heeled shoes and then she'd seduce him. Then, if that wasn't bad enough, she'd put him down for coming too fast! Jeez, how do people get that crazy?! How could she possibly justify that in her mind? What would drive her to do such a thing? Apparently she was a nice-looking woman--why didn't she just have sex with an adult she wasn't related to?!? It was the most appauling, sad story I ever heard. I had no idea what to say to him--what the hell do you say to that?!?